I’m sorry to break it to you, but unfortunately I have been having some relationship issues.
It all came to a head yesterday in a pretty difficult conversation. And, I guess it turns out that maybe we are just incompatible after all.
Over time we’ve tried, we really have. Well, I’ve tried – I’m not being bitter it’s the truth!
But there are too many things that get in the way:
I believe in support and doing the right thing. She just niggles at the detail and picks at inaccuracies.
I believe rules are there to be broken. She thinks I am wayward and uncontrollable.
I make decisions and act on them. She thinks she should be consulted on everything.
I want to plan for the future. She just takes a day at a time.
So yesterday we sat down and poured out our hearts. She told me how she felt I told her how I felt. It was emotional but I think it’s for the best. I think we will still stay in touch, but friends? That’s a step too far.
Payroll and I? We were never going to make it.