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It’s over……

06/12/2009

I’m sorry to break it to you, but unfortunately I have been having some relationship issues.

It all came to a head yesterday in a pretty difficult conversation. And, I guess it turns out that maybe we are just incompatible after all.

Over time we’ve tried, we really have. Well, I’ve tried – I’m not being bitter it’s the truth!

But there are too many things that get in the way:

I believe in support and doing the right thing. She just niggles at the detail and picks at inaccuracies.

I believe rules are there to be broken. She thinks I am wayward and uncontrollable.

I make decisions and act on them. She thinks she should be consulted on everything.

I want to plan for the future. She just takes a day at a time.

So yesterday we sat down and poured out our hearts. She told me how she felt I told her how I felt. It was emotional but I think it’s for the best. I think we will still stay in touch, but friends? That’s a step too far.

Payroll and I? We were never going to make it.

3 Comments leave one →
  1. Sayya26 permalink
    06/12/2009 14:15

    lol! that's EXACTLY how I feel about payroll- we just never get along…i really can't stand it.

  2. Henry Berry permalink
    06/13/2009 05:52

    I've just spat coffee all over my new blue tee shirt whilst laughing at that. Still, the bitch does pay you!

  3. HRD permalink
    06/18/2009 11:03

    @Sayya26 – Never ever ever have I seen the relationship work properly…its like your worst family Christmas dinner experience ever

    @Henry – Sorry about that! She does pay me, but good how I pay for it.

    To the person who read this and mistakenly thought that I was talking about my own relationship and threated to kick my arse on getting to the end…….Sorry!

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