Ask yourself this:
You are on your death bed with hours to live and your children/grandchildren come up to the side of the bed. The hold your hand and look into your eyes. They squeeze your hand and ask you, “How should we live our lives? What is the one most important thing you can tell us about how we should be what we should do?”
What would you tell them?
Now ask yourself this…….are you true to your own advice?