Lessons learnt from a week at home

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Well what can I say?  Thank you everyone for all the wonderful messages that I received on here via Twitter and by email.  I was genuinely very touched.

This time last week I was getting ready to travel to hospital and now a week later I’m back at my desk (albeit with a sling) and ready to rock and roll.  I have never been off work for a week, it was a very strange experience.  But we need to find learning wherever we can and so in true L&D mode, the things last week taught me are:

– Watching yourself being operated on is really quite amazing – technology never ceases to baffle/amaze me

– Nerve block injections make you feel like you have dead flesh attached to your body.  Which is quite unnerving.  Which in itself is ironic.

– Key hole surgery sucks, because it hurts like hell inside, but you have no manly scar outside to justify your pain to the outside world.  They just think you are a wuss.

– Losing the use of a limb requires you to think about life in a whole different way and challenges your habits.  I always put my train ticket in my back right pocket….which is not helpful when your right arm is in a sling. And as for visiting the little boys room…….

– Commuters still push into you regardless.  I pity pregnant commuters.

– I am not good at sitting around and convalescing.  I need to be doing things (including mowing the lawn with one arm!)

– I like being at home with my children. I prefer it to work.

That last one is going to take some pondering and revisiting.  I guess I always knew it, but I had never really tested it.  Watch this space……